there's always a bright side

there's always a bright side to any situation, right? if you try try try hard enough, you can find something that will make something shitty into...well...something just a little less shitty. if i had to pick something...

the more i think of it, the more i think it's actually an ok thing that i'm not speaking to my little group of san diego friends right now. the less ties i have to san diego, the easier it will be to move. i will not have to look back & wonder if i'm making the right decision. i guess this is a clear signal that this is not the place for me to be right now. time to get a move on, sandi. ok, universe, i'm listening to you. i get it.

ya, ok, don't think i'm a total bitch. yes, of course i care. but i'm trying to find some sort of positive out of this whole friends drama. considering i think i've learned my lesson with respect to dating friends, there's nothing i can do except go forward. good riddance to bad rubbish. darn, i will miss my token asian buddy. *sigh*