there is always a reason

from now on, i will really consider someone's dating past as another consideration in the mix. usually, i brush off their situation as circumstantial or coincidence. not any longer!!!

for example...if i meet a guy who hasn't gotten laid for the last 2 1/2 years or never had a ltr in his 29 years, i will stop to think "hmmm...there probably is a reason for this situation". more than likely this guy doesn't know how to deal with women, or is not ambitious enough to put in the effort women require, or basically doesn't have a fucking clue.

i have had this experience more than once, so i don't think it can be coincidece. guys not having gfs for long periods...it's just not normal. there has to be some malfunction in their relating that should be a big clue to me to run away.

now, i'm not saying there are not exceptions. there may very well be. but generalizations are there for a reason- because they are generally true.

this is my heads-up to the ladies out there. you meet a guy who has any strange relationship history (or lack of)...run away. that's my tip for the day. enjoy!

-luv issuegirl