but you have such a pretty face

wow, just when i think i've heard all the rude idiotic guy comments, i hear one that tops them all. i'll make this story quick because i don't want to think any more of this jerk than i have to to relay the happenings.

i went out w/a friend of a friend tonight. he was ok, not really my type but seemed nice enough to be friends with. so i figured what the heck? so the first part of the evening seemed fine enough, semi-fun.

after one beer he leans over ask me why i look "fuller" and "bigger" in person than in my pics. he (stupidly) asked if i gained a lot of weight recently. when my response was one of shock and appall he was confused. he made reference to me having such a "knock out face" that i shouldn't "let myself go". when i told him he was being rude and insensitive, his reponse- "oh don't worry, i've dated plus sized girls before, i don't mind that you are a bigger girl. i'd still lick your ass" (this was after a TMI conversation regarding his like for salad tossing and golden showers). i seriously almost puked in my mouth. he went on from there but i was just ignoring him. i went to the bathroom with serious ideas of just walking out. however, i am much to much of a weenie to do that. (note to self- always keep a full drink to toss in a idiot's face).

so i went back to the table to suffer through his half-assed apologies and backhanded compliments."but you have such a pretty face, you should just lose the weight". then i had enough, it all came spilling out of my mouth at that point. my voice raised enough that the girls at the table next to us looked at him in disgust (oh NO you di'nt dude). i yelled at him "who the fuck do you think you are insulting me- you don't know me. why do you think you have any right to say anything to me? you are so clueless that you think that is something OK to say to a girl on a FIRST date! you have zero respect and even less tact. now you are wasting my time. i have nothing else to say to you, you're not worth it".

during that time i was putting my jacket on and scarf, grabbed my bag and stood up. "i really have nothing to say to you, you don't have a clue. so, ya, bye". and i walked out of the bar.

the really weird thing is i got a text from him "u could have at least given me a good bye hug before leaving me at the bar...that was mean of you. and it hurt me."

JESUS- some guys have NO FUCKING CLUE!!!!!